Loose looks better on a bride says New Yrok colorist Rita Hazen. A tight ballerina bun works really well on a ballerina but not a bride. So try to make your wedding hair style look loose on your wedding day. For your wedding day do not wait to wash you hair the day of the wedding as it will look better if you wash it a day or two before so it settles in and your wedding styles can be practiced before you walk down the aisle.